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How to build a home sex dungeon

Want a kinky dungeon in your home? Here’s how to make one! 

We love blogging about all things BDSM!

From beginners advice, BDSM tips and everything you need to know – we’ve got you covered

Tips & Tricks

Check out all of the BDSM tips and tricks to get you as comfortable as possible in the lifestyle. 


From toy guides to recommended experiences, we’ve compiled everything you need to know. 


From product to fetish club reviews, we’ve been there and done it. Find out what we think. 

Frequently asked questions

Yes, each writer for BDSM Guidance including our founder, Michael, are very active in BDSM communities. We’re spread across the UK, USA and Canada, so can provide tailored information to clubs and dungeons as well as just product reviews. 

Like the old saying goes, you don’t know until you try. This site is here to help you dip your toes in the kinky waters… 

Our site founder, Michael, has qualifications and advanced training as a sexual therapist, whilst also being very active in the BDSM scene of the UK and USA for decades.